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11:09 pm: Giving things away and keeping things
My mum had located two boxes of stuff in their house - and a bag with my old sub aqua gear, fins / mask / snorkel - which were mine. I collected them on Sunday, opened them up, and discovered that my plan - to put contents directly into bag for Bernardos to collect today - was more complicated:

This was my old collection of boxes, wrapped for packing sometime years ago. Goodness knows how long ago: most probably when my parents moved from St Catherines's Place, where I lived till 1986, and they lived till 1988. (By which time my sister had also left home, and my parents had a too-big house which was really too expensive for them to run.) That wasn't itself a problem: these was stuff I'd not seen in over 20 years, and I figured if I hadn't missed them in two decades, they could go to charity and be bought by someone else.

The problem: Some of the boxes had things in them. Some of this wasn't intrinsically a problem - a collection of sweeties, hard sugar from quarter of a century ago, some old old chestnuts, a box of tea - all of which could go, and did: but, what I kept, eventually, was:
- a box of buttons (my sister collects them); three wooden elephants of varying sizes ([info]afrai might like them); the straw hen that hatched stray foreign coins and banknotes (on the basis that it's slightly foolish to throw out money without looking at it); a small chest with hares painted on it that I had used to store shiny jewellery (Ajay's having a party on Sunday: this would make a good pirate's or princess's treasure chest if she wants one); - all of these with the plan to get rid of them shortly, either to the named recipients, or just to a charity shop.

But what I kept, and mean to keep:
- my first chess set (pure sentimentality: I don't even play chess much any more);
- a box with halfpennies and one half penny (because it still strikes me as amusing);
- a memento mori box, which I had - beginning, I think, when I was about 12 - put things into that meant something to me. For about four years. Some of the items I still remember what they meant to me: some I have no idea. But it's an odd collection, odder even than the fourth box, which was:
- a small box with smaller items in it: four discs of metal mesh, that I think once looked golden; a flat portrait in china of a red-cap mushroom; a minature beaded scarf in two shades of green; a tiny brown china jug; two small dominoes from two different sets, one black and one green, both with pips adding up to seven, though different patterns; a wooden knight and a pawn from a travel chess set that long since disintegrated; a bead made out of an irregular shape of wood like a ring of bark; the head of a glass penguin; two tiny plastic wineglasses; a pin with a black glass head; a tiny fork, two knives, and two spoons, from a dollhouse set of cutlery the rest of which is long since lost; a rooster and three wise monkeys, both made of yellow plastic, out of a Christmas cracker; four counters for a game, two red, one green, one yellow (tiddlywinks, I think); and the jawbone of a stoat, that was old and dry when I found it, about three decades ago.

But everything else, along with two bags of other stuff I'd been piling up for a while, got put out in front of my garden, with a sign on it for Bernardo's, and they came by some time during the day and collected them and now they're gone. For good.

There's a free shop at the Forest this Sunday and next Sunday, and more stuff is going then. Yay.

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From:[info]afrai
Date:dayordJuly 2009 10:32 am (UTC)
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Ooo, elephants! I would demand them, but right now I am packing and need to cut down on things really. /o\ Curse my attachment to material possessions!
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From:[info]yonmei
Date:dayordJuly 2009 11:44 am (UTC)
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There is one very old brown elephant which I can't remember where I got it or who gave it to me; one green-painted Fair Trade elephant that I think my mum must have got for me in the One World Shop for my Christmas stocking one year; and one teeny tiny black elephant that I am almost sorry to get rid of. But if you are divesting yourself of material possessions in order to get packed, I should not encourage you to load yourself up with elephants in Edinburgh. No.
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From:[info]afrai
Date:dayordJuly 2009 01:59 pm (UTC)
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D: yonmei! This is not helping! Mind you, once I'm in Edinburgh, the worst of the packing will be over and I'll just be heading home after that, and home can totally accommodate a few more elephants.

*smacks self*
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From:[info]yonmei
Date:dayordJuly 2009 02:06 pm (UTC)
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...so, shall I keep my tiny herd of small to teentsy elephants in the house till I see you, or let them roam free in the parks of the local charity shops? (Which is a decision that can always be made at any time...)
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From:[info]afrai
Date:dayordJuly 2009 10:48 pm (UTC)
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Sigh. I think it's best to let them roam free in the local charity shops. I'm prolly going to end up with far too much stuff to carry home anyway. Go to good homes, little elephants! *waves tiny hankie*
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From:[info]whatho
Date:dayordJuly 2009 07:35 pm (UTC)
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Treasure! I'm quite excited by 'the jawbone of a stoat'. I doubt many people have such a thing. I have a catfish skull. That's sort of ... similar.
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From:[info]yonmei
Date:dayordJuly 2009 08:27 pm (UTC)
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This is awful, it's how hoarding starts. You find something you can't bear to give or throw away, and in fifty years you have a house full of stuff including whole skeletons, probably.

A catfish skull sounds like a very good thing to have.
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